Dig into the Nooks and Crannies

 How many people struggle in this world because they are focused on the wrong things? People are so stressed on stupid things that don't matter and don't add any value to their lives or the people around them. How quick they are to deflect the blame of anything and everything. When really they need to point the finger of truth at themselves. But that is not so easy. It is not their fault however that they are oblivious to the true nature of things. My suggestion would be stop sit them down, have them look themselves in the mirror, and have a deep conversation with themselves. They need to explore their mind, dig into all the nooks and crannies to rediscover themselves. They've been reacting to everything in their lives, but what they need to do is start acting on their own will, figure out what their desires are and move towards them. It is scary. What if you find something you don't like? What if you find something in your own mind that scares you? GOOD! Now you can truly begin your healing and start to transform yourself into a person of philosophy. Until then, you will live your life on autopilot, not knowing what your are doing or why you are doing the things your are. Always reacting to everything around you. Choose to be better than you are friends. choose to be kind, patient and forgiving. Choose to never give up.